為世間愛(ài)情贊嘆.doc

歲月靜好，現(xiàn)實(shí)安穩(wěn) 有時(shí)候，一份清淡，更能歷久彌香；一種無(wú)意，更讓人夢(mèng)牽魂繞；一段簡(jiǎn)約，更可以維系一生。 題記每個(gè)人來(lái)到世上，都是匆匆過(guò)客，有些人與之邂逅，轉(zhuǎn)身忘記；有些人與之擦肩，必然回首。所有相遇和回眸都只是因?yàn)榫壏?，?dāng)你愛(ài)上了某個(gè)背影，貪戀某個(gè)眼神，意味著你已心系一段情緣。只是緣深緣淺，任誰(shuí)都無(wú)從把握，聚散無(wú)由，我們都要以平常心相待。曾幾何時(shí)，我們做了那多愁善感的人，為一朵花低眉，為一片云駐足，為一滴雨感動(dòng)。我們也愛(ài)上了鶯歌燕舞的人間，愛(ài)上了姹紫嫣紅的春天，也愛(ài)上了詩(shī)情畫(huà)意的江南，也愛(ài)上了“孤煙大漠直“的塞外。有人在愛(ài)情面前活的很“驕傲”，如：林徽因。她讓徐志摩想念了一生，讓梁思成寵愛(ài)了一生，讓金岳霖默默地守候了一生，更讓世間男子仰慕了一生。一個(gè)出生在江南水鄉(xiāng)的女子，有著柔美的一面。也許她長(zhǎng)得沉魚(yú)落雁、閉月羞花，也可能傾國(guó)傾城。也許這些字詞無(wú)法表達(dá)她的美，但是她真的是迷倒了許多男子。初戀是美好的，但又是短暫的。在康橋和徐志摩談情說(shuō)愛(ài)，那是她這一生最幸福、快樂(lè)的日子。但是誰(shuí)都知道那是一個(gè)沒(méi)有結(jié)果的愛(ài)情。所以，最后她嫁給了他梁思成。婚前，梁思成問(wèn)林徽因：“有一句話，我只問(wèn)這一次，以后都不會(huì)再問(wèn)了，為什么是我？”林徽因答：“答案很長(zhǎng)，我得用一生去回答你，準(zhǔn)備好聽(tīng)我了嗎？”多么富含哲理的答案啊，梁思成靜靜地呵護(hù)了她一生。而文學(xué)界的泰斗，為了她，終身未娶，一直在她身邊守候了一生。只要她過(guò)得好，他就會(huì)好。 “遇了他，她變得很低很低，低到塵埃里，但她心里是歡喜的，在塵埃里開(kāi)出花來(lái)?！?有人在愛(ài)情面前活的很卑微，如：張愛(ài)玲。她與胡蘭成因小說(shuō)結(jié)緣。那一年，他38歲，她24歲，他們進(jìn)行了一場(chǎng)傾城之戀。世人都認(rèn)為張愛(ài)玲愛(ài)上大漢奸胡蘭成是一件不可思議的事情，為張愛(ài)玲惋惜；因?yàn)閺垚?ài)玲并不在乎他的身份，所以她愛(ài)上了他?！耙?yàn)槎?，所以慈悲?！焙m成是懂張愛(ài)玲的，懂她貴族家庭背景下的高貴優(yōu)雅，也懂她因?yàn)橥甑牟恍叶傻募皶r(shí)行樂(lè)的思想。僅僅這一個(gè)“懂得”，也許就是張愛(ài)玲愛(ài)上胡蘭成的最大原因。而張愛(ài)玲本身就不是一個(gè)世俗之人，她不以塵世的價(jià)值觀去品評(píng)一個(gè)人。她沒(méi)有什么政治觀念，只是把胡蘭成當(dāng)作一個(gè)懂她的男人，不是汪偽政府的漢奸；對(duì)于胡蘭成的妻室，她也不在乎，因她似乎并不想到天長(zhǎng)地久的事?！皭?ài)情也是一朵能開(kāi)能謝的花！”戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)的來(lái)臨打亂了他們的美好，從此他們相隔天涯。胡蘭成愛(ài)上了其他女人，他不再在乎她的一顰一笑。她忍受了他愛(ài)上別的女人，無(wú)形間卻放縱了他。誰(shuí)叫他是個(gè)多情的種，因此注定他們的愛(ài)情花是要凋謝的。其實(shí)，張愛(ài)玲真的是很委屈，她的心里只有這一個(gè)男人，而這個(gè)男人的心里卻裝著幾個(gè)女人，叫她怎么能不感傷？ 記得張愛(ài)玲離開(kāi)溫州的時(shí)候，胡蘭成送她，天下著雨，真是天公應(yīng)離情。這場(chǎng)雨，也沖刷了他們?cè)?jīng)的“傾城之戀”。張愛(ài)玲知道，她這一生最美的愛(ài)情，已經(jīng)走到了辛酸的盡頭，再也沒(méi)有挽回的余地了。 從此，他們就成了彼此最熟悉的陌生人?！霸?jīng)滄海難為水，除去巫山不是云“有人在愛(ài)情面前很無(wú)賴，如：陸游與唐婉。陸游與唐婉兩人青梅竹馬，耳鬢廝磨。兩人常借詩(shī)詞傾訴衷腸，花前月下，二人吟詩(shī)作對(duì)，相互唱和，麗影成雙，美目中洋溢著幸福和諧。成年后，兩人共結(jié)連理。從此，陸游與唐婉更是情愛(ài)彌深，沉醉在二人世界中，不知今夕何夕，全然忘記了功名利祿。陸游的母親是一位威嚴(yán)而專橫的女性，她一心盼望兒子金榜題名，而陸游卻沉醉在溫柔鄉(xiāng)。唐氏拿出殺手锏，要休了唐婉，陸游悲如刀絞。面對(duì)母親，只得低頭，別無(wú)他求。三年后，一切早已物是人非。沈園的相遇使得唐婉將以往積蓄已久的舊日柔情、千般委屈一下子奔瀉出來(lái)；同時(shí)陸游心中對(duì)唐婉埋在內(nèi)心深處的舊日情絲和仕途的不順不由得涌出。兩人四目相對(duì)，千般心事、萬(wàn)般情懷，卻不知從何說(shuō)起。只是時(shí)光荏苒，她已嫁作他人婦，而陸游也另娶她人?？吹轿羧盏膼?ài)人與他人淺斟慢飲，看得陸游心都碎了。昨日情夢(mèng)，今日癡怨盡繞心頭，感慨萬(wàn)端，于是提筆在粉墻上題了：釵頭鳳紅酥手，黃藤酒，滿城春色宮墻柳。東風(fēng)惡，歡情薄，一懷愁緒，幾年離索。錯(cuò)，錯(cuò)，錯(cuò)！春如舊，人空瘦，淚痕紅浥鮫綃透。桃花落，閑池閣，山盟雖在，錦書(shū)難托。莫，莫，莫！第二年春天，唐婉再一次來(lái)到沈園，徘徊在曲徑回廊之間，忽然瞥見(jiàn)陸游的題詞。反復(fù)吟誦，想起往日二人情意濃濃的時(shí)光，不由得淚流滿面，不知不覺(jué)中合了一首詞：釵頭鳳世情薄，雨送黃昏花易落。曉風(fēng)乾，淚痕殘，欲箋心事。獨(dú)語(yǔ)斜欄。難，難，難！人成各，今非昨，病魂常似秋千索。角聲寒，夜闌珊，怕人尋問(wèn)，咽淚裝歡。瞞，瞞，瞞！陸游與唐婉的愛(ài)情本是十分完美的結(jié)合，卻毀于世俗的風(fēng)雨中。趙士程雖然重新給了她感情的撫慰，但是畢竟曾經(jīng)滄海難為水。與陸游那份刻骨銘心的情緣始終埋在她感情世界的最深處。追憶似水的往昔，嘆惜無(wú)奈的世事，使得她日臻憔悴，抑郁成疾，在秋意蕭瑟的時(shí)節(jié)化作一片落葉悄悄隨風(fēng)逝去。而陸游，七十五歲時(shí)，上書(shū)告老還鄉(xiāng)。他浪跡天涯數(shù)十載，企圖借此忘卻他與唐婉的凄涼往事，但是他發(fā)現(xiàn)，離家越遠(yuǎn)，她的影子就越縈繞在他的心頭。此次倦游歸來(lái)，唐婉早已香消玉損，但是陸游對(duì)沈園依然懷著深切的眷戀。常常在沈園幽徑上踽踽獨(dú)行，追憶著深印腦海中的那驚鴻一瞥的一幕。只是因?yàn)椋肋h(yuǎn)住在他的心里，這一生他只愛(ài)她，也許她也只會(huì)愛(ài)他。青春年華的美好抵不過(guò)一次完美的邂逅，只是因?yàn)閻?ài)情。我們應(yīng)該怎樣抉擇自己以后的路呢？幸福是掌握在我們自己的手中，所以不能放棄任何一個(gè)獲取幸福的機(jī)會(huì)。我們要像林徽因那樣擁有幸福，而不是像張愛(ài)玲那樣在愛(ài)情面前沒(méi)有了“尊嚴(yán)”，也不能像陸游與唐婉那樣，自己的幸福被別人掌控了！我們更應(yīng)該像卓文君那樣，爭(zhēng)取自己的幸福！幸福不會(huì)在某一個(gè)地方等你，也不會(huì)提前提醒你，它要來(lái)了。但是幸福和世界萬(wàn)物一樣，有它的征兆與韻律。幸福不喜歡喧囂浮華，它常常在平淡中降臨。父母一次親切的問(wèn)候，朋友一次細(xì)心的關(guān)心About love- small goSometimes, a light, more persistent and fragrant. A voluntary, more let a person dream guy around the soul; A simple, more can sustain life.Signature -Everyone has come into the world, and are in a hurry traveler, some people with the encounter, turned to forget. Some people with the rub shoulders, must look back. All meet and looking back only because the fate, when you fall in love with a figure, lust after a look, means that you have a love heart. Only marginal deep edge shallow, let everyone dont grasp, gather and have no way, we all want to be treat.Once upon a time, we made the most tender feelings, for a flower low eyebrow, as a cloud, stop for a drop of rain touched. We also fell in love with a scene of prosperity of the room, fell in love with the beautiful flowers of spring, also fell in love with the poetic of jiangnan.Someone in front of love live very proud, such as: LinHuiYin. She let xu zhimo miss a lifetime, let liang sicheng dote on his life, let JinYueLin silently waiting for a lifetime, more let the man admire a lifetime. One was born in jiangnan woman, has a soft side. Maybe she grow ChenYuLaYan, BiYueXiuHua, may also exceedingly beautiful. Perhaps these words cannot express her beauty, but she is really got it man.First love is a good thing, but it is short. In Cambridge and xu zhimo love affairs, that is her life the most happy, happy day. But everyone knows that is a not to have the result love. So, at last she married him - liang sicheng.Before marriage, liang sicheng asked LinHuiYin: there is a word, I only ask this time, later wont ask, why me? LinHuiYin answer: the answer is very long, I have to use his life to answer you, ready to hear me? How is rich in philosophical answer ah, liang sicheng quietly caress her life. And masters in the field of literature, in order to her, life was not married, has been in her side waiting for a lifetime. As long as she had a good, he will be good.Also some people in love live very humble before, such as: zhang ailing. Meet him, she became very low very low, low to dust, but she was glad, flower leaves to come in dust.She and subject for novel become attached to. That year, he and years of age, and she 24 years old, they made a little of love. The world has think zhang ailing love big traitors subject is a magical thing, for her regret; Because of zhang ailing dont care about his identity, so she fell in love with him.Because understand, so mercy.Subject is to understand her, to understand her noble family backgrounds noble elegant, also understand her because childhood unfortunately generated carpe diem thoughts. Only this one know, is perhaps the biggest reason zhang ailing love subject. And zhang ailing itself is not an ordinary person, she is not with the values to comment on a person. She had no political ideas, just put the subject as a understand her man, not of wang puppet government traitors; For the subjects wife, she also dont care, because she didnt seem to think of everlasting thing.Love is a to be able to leave can thank flowers!The coming of the war disrupted their beautiful, and they are the. Subject fell in love with the other woman, he no longer CARES about her every move and smile. She endured he falls in love with another woman, but between intangible to him. Who call he is a romantic, therefore doomed their love flower is to passe.In fact, zhang ailing is really very grievance, she was only a man, and the mans heart is containing several woman, call her how can not sad?Remember zhang ailing left wenzhou, subject to send her, it rained, was the god should be LiQing. The rain, and washed out they had turned of love. Zhang ailing already know, her life the most beautiful love, is going to the bitter end, never save room for.From then on, they became the most familiar stranger to each other.Once the sea touch water, remove the sorcery mountain isnt cloudSomeone in front of love is very knave, such as: lu you and tang wan. Lu you and tang wan two childhood sweetheart, skin to skin. Two people often talk through poetry says, under the moon and flowers, two people against recite poems, mutual respond, raider in pairs, in the beautiful eye is permeated with happiness harmony. Adult, two people knot. From then on, lu you and tang wan is love and deep, drunk in the two people in the world, do not know topic hometowns, had forgotten all about the high official positions and riches. Lu you mother is a dignified and imperious women, with all her heart longing for her son to have passed the examination, and lu you are drunk in loring. Down out of ace in the hole, to Sue the tang wan, lu you heart sad like a knife ground. In the face of the mother, had to lower the head, has no other desire.Three years later, all had different. Shen garden meeting makes tang wan will ever savings already a long time of old like a tender feelings, thousands of grievance streamed out; At the same time, lu you heart to tang wan buried in the hearts of the old affection silk and official career setbacks cant help gushed out. Two people eye to eye, worry, all feelings, but dont know where to start. But time flies, she has married woman for others, and lu you and another man to marry her. See the former lover and others were shallow slow drink, see lu you heart is broken. Yesterday love dream, today chi hatred all around the heart, feeling, and thought by the wall on the topic:The ChaiTouFengRed cake hand, common fibraurea stem wine, the spring scenery GongQiang willow. Dongfeng evil, HuanQing thin, with a gloomy mood, a few years LiSuo. Wrong, wrong, wrong!The restoration of spring, empty thin, the red Yi through every. Peach blossom falls, ChiGe idle, though ShanMeng, jin book difficult to Joe. Mo, mo, mo!In the following spring, tang wan once again came to shen garden, wander in the labyrinth corridors between, suddenly caught a glimpse of lu yous inscription. Repeated sings, of the two people feeling thick time, tears cant help, imperceptible in close a word:The ChaiTouFengTraditional thin, rain send dusk flowers soon fell. XiaoFeng dry, the residual to mind thinks. Only language inclined column. Difficult, difficult, difficult!People into each, today than yesterday, disease soul often like swing line. The sound of the horn, the end of the night, fear asking, tearful smile. Deceive, deceive, deceive!Lu you and tang wan love this is very perfect union, but destroyed by worldly the wind a