《當(dāng)代商務(wù)英語(yǔ)綜合教程2》課件-Unit 10 My Deep,Dark

Contents1TextAMyDeep,DarkSecretLanguageinUseTextBMBAEntrepreneursThinkOutsidetheBoxforBeautyBusinessWarm-upQuestions:2Warm-upQuestions:1.Haveyoueverhadtheexperienceofbeingeagertogetawayfromyourparents?Why?2.Doyouagreewiththesayingthatdistancecreatesbeauty?Pleasegiveacommentonthesaying.Pre-classTask13Pre-classTask1Readthetextonceforthemainidea(s).Donotrefertothenotes,theglossaryordictionaries.TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret4PassageWhenIwasapplyingtocollegesasahigh-schoolsenior,Iwantednothingmorethantogosomewherefar,farfromhome.Ibelieved,assomanyyoungpeopledo,thatmysuccessandmaturitywouldbemeasuredlargelybyhowfarawayfrommyfamily.Iwenttoattendcollegeand,eventually,getajob.Asitturnedout,myparentsbalkedatpayingformetoflyhomeforfouryearsofThanksgiving,Christmasandsummervacations,soIhadtolookforschoolswithinafewhours'drivingdistance.Iappliedtotwoschoolsthatwereinstate,andtwoinborderingstates.Notveryexotic.1TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret5PassageIntheend,Ichosetheschoolthatwasjustanhourawaybecauseitofferedmethemostscholarshipmoney.Icanrememberthemotherofoneofmyfriendssayingwithdisdaininhervoice,“So,youdecidedtostickaroundhere,huh?”Myresponse—myrationalizationtomyselfandothers—wasthatIwouldn'thavetocomehome,orevencall,anymorethanifIwereataschoolthousandsofmilesaway.26PassageButIdidcallandvisitoften.IjustifiedthisbytellingmyselfIwouldmoveawayaftercollegewhenIwouldnolongerbefinanciallydependentonmyparents.IalsotookeveryopportunityIhadtotravelasanundergraduate.IstudiedforsixmonthsinFranceandforthreemonthsinNewYorkCity,inaprogramforfine-artsstudents.Iknewthatmyparentsweretellingtheirfriendsandneighborsaboutthefar-flungadventuresIwashaving,andmademefeelIhadsomehowcompensatedforchoosingaschoolsoclosetohome.3TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret7PassageWhenitcametimeforgraduateschool,Iappliedalloverthecountry.Myfirstchoice—whichhappenedtobeseveralstatesaway—offeredmeaspot,andIacceptedimmediately.Inalltheexcitementofplanningandpacking,IoverlookedthefactthatthiswouldbethefirsttimeIwouldleavemyfamilywithoutknowingthatitwasnottemporary,thatIwouldnotreturnsoon.IwastotallyunpreparedforthegriefIfelt.4TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret8PassageThenightbeforeIleft,myparentstriedtocomfortme.Theyassuredmewewouldallseeeachotheragainsoon,thatthiswassomethingIhadtodoandthattheywouldenjoyvisitingmeinmynewcity,butIwasinconsolable.Icriedduringmostofthethree-daydrivetomynewschoolandeverydayafterthatfortwoweeks.ItwasdevastatingtorealizethatforthenextfewyearsIwouldseemymotherandfatheronlyonspecialoccasionsandmajorholidays.5TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret9PassageSincethenIhaveseenmyfamilythreetimes,fortwoChristmasvisitsandmyweddinglastsummer.Unfortunately,ithasnevergottenanyeasierformetosaygoodbyewhenthetimecomes.Myhusband(whogrewupnearmyhometown)andIplantomoveagaininayearandhalf.Oneofourtopprioritieswillbetogetclosertoourfamilies.6TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret10PassageIam24yearsold,afull-fledgedadult.AndImissmymomanddadandmybrother.Notlongago,thatstatementwouldhavefeltconfessional.Ihadinternalizedthenot-so-subtlemessagethatonceyoureachyourmagical18thbirthday,youshouldbecompletelyself-reliant.Ihadboughtintotheideathatwhileyoushouldcertainlycontinuetoloveyourparents,andevenasktheiradviceonceinawhile,youshouldn'tbesadifyoudon'tgettoseethemonaregularbasis.7TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret11PassageIsawasitcomrecentlyinwhichtheyounghusbandcomplainedtohiswifeaboutherparents,wonderingwhytheycouldn'tbelike“normal”parentsandlivefaraway.Thischaracterhadperfectlycapturedtheessenceofit:parentswholiveneartheirgrownchildrenaresmothering,andchildrenwhostayneartheirparentsareclingy,codependent,andunsuccessful.TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret12PassageTheperceptionmayfinallybechanging.BeforeSeptember11,Ifeltuniqueinmystrongattachmenttomyfamily.Sincethen,however,manyofmyfriendssaytheywishtheycouldgathertogethereveryonetheylovesotheycouldkeepthemsafe,andsotheywouldn'thavetofacealonewhatevernewdangersmaycome.8TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret13PassageButit'smorethanfear,Ithink,thatmakesuswanttobewithourlovedones.It'saclichétosaythatadversityandtraumaforceustoseriouslyreexamineourlives.Butsincetheattacks,I'veheardmypeerssaytheyfeelarenewedappreciationfortheirfamilies.IhavespokentosomanyyoungpeoplewhovisitedorcalledtheirrelativesonSeptember11—eveniftheywerenotinphysicaldanger—tosayIloveyou,areyouOK,Iamsogratefulforyou.9TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecret14PassageIt'stooearlytoknowwhetherourgratitudeandourdesireformorecontactwithourfamilieswilllast,orif,asthefearandshockcontinuetoabate,thosefeelingswillfade,too.Butfornow,atleast,itseemsasthoughmyfamilyandI,inourcloseness,arenotsounusual.TextA

MyDeep,DarkSecretPre-classTask215Pre-classTask2ChoosethestatementthatbestexplainsyourunderstandingofTextA.1.b）

2.c）3.c）4.a）5.b）Pre-classTask316Pre-classTask3Readthetextasecondtimetoreviewthevocabularyincontext.Studythenewwordsandtheirdefinitions.Pre-classTask317Glossary18Pre-classTask319Pre-classTask320Pre-classTask321Pre-classTask322Pre-classTask3In-classTask123In-classTask1Readthetextathirdtimeforabetterunderstandingofthemainpoints.Explaininyourownwordsthefollowingsentencestakenfromthetext.1.WhenIwasapplyingtocollegesasahigh-schoolsenior,Iwantednothingmorethantogosomewherefar,farfromhome.(Para.1)1.WhenIwasdecidingwhichcollegeIwouldchooseinseniorhigh,Ionlywantedtogotoacollegewhichwasveryfarawayfromhome.(Para.1)In-classTask1242.Iknewthatmyparentsweretellingtheirfriendsandneighborsaboutthefar-flungadventuresIwashaving,andmademefeelIhadsomehowcompensatedforchoosingaschoolsoclosetohome.(Para.3)2.ThoughIchoseaschoolwhichwassoclosetomyhome,myparentskepttellingthefriendsandneighborsthatItookeveryopportunityIhadtotraveltothedistantplaces,whichreallymademefeelbetter.(Para.3)3.ItwasdevastatingtorealizethatforthenextfewyearsIwouldseemymotherandfatheronlyonspecialoccasionsandmajorholidays.(Para.5)In-classTask1253.Tomyastonishment,IfoundthatitwasonlyonsomespecialdaysandmainholidaysthatIcouldseemyparentsinthenextfewyears.(Para.5)4.Ihadinternalizedthenot-so-subtlemessagethatonceyoureachyourmagical18thbirthday,youshouldbecompletelyself-reliant.(Para.7)In-classTask1264.Inthebottomofmyheart,Ihadacceptedthefactthattheageof18wasequaltocompleteindependence,eventhoughitwasnotveryconspicuous.(Para.7)5.I'veheardmypeerssaytheyfeelarenewedappreciationfortheirfamilies.(Para.9)In-classTask1275.Peopleinmyagetoldmethattheyhadanewunderstandingfortheirfamiliesnow.(Para.9)In-classTask228In-classTask2StructuralAnalysisoftheTextThistextisafirstpersonnarration,inwhichthewriterchoosestwocrucialperiodsofherpersonallifetoshowushowsheinterpretsindependenceandmaturity.Initiallyshethinksthatbeingfarawayfromherparentssymbolizesindependence.However,withthepassageoftime,shefindslaterthatbeingwiththefamilymembersisnotshamefulandunusual.Familywillalwaysbeanimportantspiritualsupportalongtheroadofone'sgrowth.TheSeptember11attackgivesheragoodlesson.In-classTask329In-classTask31.Readaloudparagraphs7-8.2.Workinpairstoaskeachotherquestionsaboutthetext.3.Answerthefollowingquestions.1)Haveyoueverrecalledyourownexperienceofgrowingup?Isthereanythingspecialthatoncehappenedtoyou?In-classTask3302)WhatdoyouthinkofthedifferencebetweenAmericanparentsandChineseparentsinthewaytheyshowtheirlovefortheirchildren?2）Americanparentslovetheirchildrenbuttheyeducatethemtobeindependent,andwhentheirchildrengrowup,theyaskthemtolivebythemselvesandmaketheirowndecisions.Nevertheless,Chineseparentslovetheirchildreninadifferentway.Theyalmostspoiltheirchildrenanddoeverythingfortheirchildren.Evenwhentheirchildrenbecomeadults,theystillwanttheirchildrentolivewiththem.In-classTask3313)HowdoAmericanyoungpeopleshowtheirlovetotheirparents?3）Americanyoungpeopleputmuchemphasisonindividualityandindependence.Asaresult,thoughtheylovetheirparents,theyprefertheirownpersonallifeanddonotcontacttheirparentsfrequently.Onthecontrary,Chinesealwaysgiveprioritytorespectingtheold.Therefore,Chineseyoungpeoplehaveaclosecontactwiththeirparentsevenwhentheygetmarried,andtheyalwaystrytospendmoretimewiththeirparents.4)WhatdoyouthinkisthegreatimpactofSeptember11onAmericanpeople,especiallytheirnotionoffamily?In-classTask3324）ThegreatimpactofSeptember11isAmericanpeople'sstrongerfeelingforfamily.AfterSeptember11,Americanpeoplerealizedthatitwasfamiliesthattheyconcernedmostandit'sadvisabletokeepclosecontactwiththeirfamilies,sincefamilyistheplacewheretheycanfindshelter,comfort,andspiritualsecurity.4.Discussthefollowingwithyourclassmatesandpresentyourideatotheclass.1)Whatdoyouthinkofthegenerationgap?2)Pleasegiveacommentonthelastsentenceofparagraph7.In-classTask33334TextA

TextTranslation深沉而隱蔽的秘密在我作為高中生申請(qǐng)上大學(xué)之時(shí)，我只想上一所離家遠(yuǎn)一些的大學(xué)，正如許多年輕人所認(rèn)為的那樣，我認(rèn)為自己的成功和成熟很大程度上取決于我上的大學(xué)離家有多遠(yuǎn)，以及最終所找到的工作，可結(jié)果是，我父母不愿意支付我上學(xué)四年中的感恩節(jié)、圣誕節(jié)以及暑假的機(jī)票錢，我不得不在車程為幾小時(shí)的學(xué)校中進(jìn)行選擇,我向本州和鄰州的兩所學(xué)校提出了申請(qǐng),這在當(dāng)時(shí)一點(diǎn)都不奇怪。135TextATextTranslation最后，我選擇了一所距離我家有一小時(shí)車程的學(xué)校，因?yàn)檫@所學(xué)校提供給我高額的獎(jiǎng)學(xué)金，我現(xiàn)在仍記得我朋友的母親帶著不屑一顧的口吻說(shuō)：“那么，你就決定扎根在你家附近了啊？”我給自己及他人的回答或掩飾就是：我免去了遠(yuǎn)在千里之外的勞頓之苦，不必長(zhǎng)途跋涉地回家，也不必給家打電話。236TextATextTranslation但我卻經(jīng)常打電話，也常回家，我這樣做的理由就是大學(xué)畢業(yè)后我就會(huì)搬走了，在經(jīng)濟(jì)上也就不再依靠父母了，我還抓住作為本科生的每一次外出的機(jī)會(huì)，利用學(xué)藝術(shù)的學(xué)習(xí)項(xiàng)目，在法國(guó)學(xué)習(xí)了半年，在紐約市學(xué)習(xí)了三個(gè)月。我知道我父母會(huì)告訴他們的朋友和鄰居我遠(yuǎn)在異國(guó)他鄉(xiāng)的經(jīng)歷，這也讓我感到我彌補(bǔ)了選擇在離家較近的學(xué)校學(xué)習(xí)的不足。337TextATextTranslation當(dāng)我再有機(jī)會(huì)選擇讀研究生的學(xué)校時(shí)，我則在全國(guó)范圍內(nèi)進(jìn)行申請(qǐng)，首選一所距離我家有好幾個(gè)州遠(yuǎn)的學(xué)校，這所學(xué)校接收了我，我立即就答應(yīng)了。在計(jì)劃和打點(diǎn)的興奮心情中我忽略了一個(gè)事實(shí)，那就是這將是我第一次離開(kāi)家，并且不知道這不是暫時(shí)性的，不會(huì)很快回來(lái)