英語演講,learntosayno.ppt

,Learn,To,Say “No”,Helping people is the right thing and will make us popular.,We cant say “yes” to every request.,We dont have enough time to help or we have something more important to do.,We must say “No”!,We feel guilt and uncomfortable when we say “No” to others.,Not because of being afraid of harming someone. We are afraid of offending someone.,People may feel annoyed but later they will realize your position.,Actually,_ , () ) - - (*/| | ) |/ | | / |_|) / | / | ,_,_,_,|,Be Thankful,People who come over to ask for your help believe that you have the ability to help them, you must be thankful for their trust.,You cannot do him a favor doesnt mean you against the person.,Even though you cant help, make sure that people can feel that you are on his side, you would support him.,Just speak it out and handle it with tact, then people will know that you are not going to do what they have asked you to do.,Make It Simple,Dont always apologize when you say “No” to others. If you do so, you maybe persuade yourself to promise their request.,only focus on business,Only e-mail/QQ/MSN,lose means of communication,Insist Your Opinion,Emphasize your position, do it resolutely,Listen carefully Respect Bring the two sides to communicate in a friendly atmosphere.,Think It Over,Avoid answering under the pressure,Consider the potential stakes,Review,Be Thankful,Make It Simple,Insist Your Opinion,Think It Over,Tips,act!,Time to,If you have understood how to say “No” properly, everything changes. Everything is changing.,Our life will be more harmony. We wont be weary in body and mind.,Only